1. What are the some of common instances in which we show off?
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i. money
ii. fame
iii. religiosity: charity, prayer, fasting, hajj
iv. status
v. clothes
vi. social contacts
vii. hotelling
viii. house address
ix. hair dye when used to deceive others
x. body / muscular
xi. jewellery / high heels
xii. children studying abroad
xiii. foreign tours
xiv. solo photographs all over
xv. foreign decoration pieces
xvi. holiday tours
xvii. manner of walking
xviii. large moustaches
xix. expensive utensils
xx. false modesty
xxi. dowry
xxii. guards / gunmen
2. How can we overcome showing off
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i. not claiming credit for things
ii. giving away what is very dear to us and is a means of showing off
iii. evading publicity
iv. leading a simple life
v. seeking attention in constructive ways
vi. considering our talent to be a gift entrusted by God
vii. impressing God instead of wanting to impress others
viii. fasting, spending, praying in private so that no one knows
ix. not speaking on a subject as if we are the first and foremost authority
x. avoiding buying things which are status symbols
3. Why do people show off
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i. to get noticed
ii. to earn praise
iii. to satisfy their arrogance
iv. to belittle others
v. to make others jealous
vii. to impress others
viii. they feel insecure
ix. they have fear of being rejected
x. narcicism
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