1. Enumerate instances in which we generally show selfishness
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i. not giving time to our children and to our parents
ii. not showering praises on others’ good deeds
iii. not solving the problems of others especially when we can
iv. not returning a favour
v. bribing to get a thing that we do not deserve
vi. a student is selfish when he does not share his notes
vii. not spending on the poor fearing poverty
viii. not sharing our blessings / talents
ix. not taking interest in the problems of the society in general
x. asking other people to be stingy
xi. spouse – not showing empathy to the needs of one another
xii. when we do not entertain guests the way we should
xiii. disturbing neighbours pets / civil works / weddings / mosques
xiv. showing greed for public office
xv not making dua for others as much as we can
xix. not smiling enough
2. Suggest practical ways to become selfless
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i. spending what is dear to us
ii. thinking of God’s reward in the Hereafter
iii. making a list of things in which we are selfish and then trying to correct each area
iv. making it a point to do regular voluntary work
v. suggesting to our selves that being selfless will make us forget our own pains
vi. reading stories of selfless people
vii. seeking the company of selfless people
viii. spending generously on others, in particular those in need
ix. hiding our virtuous acts
x. not taking credit of the noble acts we do
xi. returning a favour with more
xii. keep thanking God
xiii. disposing off extra things of our house by giving them in charity
xiii. becoming selfish where selfishness is praiseworthy: seeking forgiveness from God
xiv. donating blood
xv. donating organs
3. Draw the portrait of a selfish person.
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i. greedy
ii. conniving
iii. no regard for the society
iv. coward
v. stingy
vi. narcissist / egotistic
vii. manipulative / scheming
viii. calculative and accumulating possessions
ix. jealous of others
x. no mental peace
xi. friend to no one.
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